本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1. you know j very well, why do you marry him? you have to think of definition of love.
2. our chinese consider too many things, too long future when doing one thing. it waste too many time and make the life too hard. love is very easy to understand.
my understanding of love
1. love is a part of life. love must be based on the life for most of people who want to have a stable, trustable and long love. Love has some effecting factors. if you want to consider many factors to decide love, it is best one. Sure, it is very hard.
2. If you want to have short time love, for example, one night, one month, or doesn't matter, depending on the feeling, love will be simplier. Many couples in foreign countries do not want marry, or there are many MBA (Married But Available), they want enjoy the feeling, sex, friendship, even having a baby, because marriege is a very complicated social problem and they need to think of too many factors. (nowaday, marriege in china mostly still means having sex, but, having sex and marriege is very different things). Short time love, non-married love, MBA are most wanted love, hot, exciting, pure, enjoyable, whatever.
3. love is an understanding, reality, but not 100%. In fact, there is best thing, but ther is no 100% perfect things. you look around the world, inlcuding the rich or poor, wise or stupid, in city or village ... ... But, you can only choose the best one, when you consider more carefully. The most of happy marrieges in the world are just this group.
4. love is a luck, but not a mathermatic function. even you know the love well, and you consider so carefully, you also cannot have a happy love, if you are unlucky.
5. love is always changing with the requirement of life quality, life styles. it is the reason, why some people are devoiced after marriege. Money is bad, but toooooo important. You, me, nobody can decline its attractive power.
6. Sex is more and more importent than ever in the marriege. People want long, exciting, hot sex. oral sex is popular, mordern style. If the couple have some problem, they can understand and forgive each other after a hot sexual activity. Sex is just one of playing toys, and entertaiment method.
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too much we have to think of love.
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2. our chinese consider too many things, too long future when doing one thing. it waste too many time and make the life too hard. love is very easy to understand.
my understanding of love
1. love is a part of life. love must be based on the life for most of people who want to have a stable, trustable and long love. Love has some effecting factors. if you want to consider many factors to decide love, it is best one. Sure, it is very hard.
2. If you want to have short time love, for example, one night, one month, or doesn't matter, depending on the feeling, love will be simplier. Many couples in foreign countries do not want marry, or there are many MBA (Married But Available), they want enjoy the feeling, sex, friendship, even having a baby, because marriege is a very complicated social problem and they need to think of too many factors. (nowaday, marriege in china mostly still means having sex, but, having sex and marriege is very different things). Short time love, non-married love, MBA are most wanted love, hot, exciting, pure, enjoyable, whatever.
3. love is an understanding, reality, but not 100%. In fact, there is best thing, but ther is no 100% perfect things. you look around the world, inlcuding the rich or poor, wise or stupid, in city or village ... ... But, you can only choose the best one, when you consider more carefully. The most of happy marrieges in the world are just this group.
4. love is a luck, but not a mathermatic function. even you know the love well, and you consider so carefully, you also cannot have a happy love, if you are unlucky.
5. love is always changing with the requirement of life quality, life styles. it is the reason, why some people are devoiced after marriege. Money is bad, but toooooo important. You, me, nobody can decline its attractive power.
6. Sex is more and more importent than ever in the marriege. People want long, exciting, hot sex. oral sex is popular, mordern style. If the couple have some problem, they can understand and forgive each other after a hot sexual activity. Sex is just one of playing toys, and entertaiment method.
... ...
too much we have to think of love.
how can you do?更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net