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characteristics of the men in your category

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛the men in your category typically have the following characteristics:
1. they are men of wisdom. they have witnessed enough in their life -- either directly or indirectly. they digest their life experience (and that of others) better than anyone. Thus they are usually more mature than men of their own age.
2. they are men of exceptional intelligence. they are sharp, talented and highly intelligent. they are quick learners and they exceed in everything they do. they are successful in their own career or profession. they are the best businessmen, lawyers, professors, or doctors.
3. they are well-to-do, if not rich. their income is better than average so they can keep up with their taste and class.
4. they are very well-educated -- better than average. they read a lot. they are knowledgable of many topics. they are savy, cultivated, and witty.
5. they are the best audience(listeners) to girls. they know how to listen. and they also know the best weapon for conquering a girl is not the mouth, but the ears. if you know how to listen to a girl, you are already half way to her bedroom.
6. they are admirer of women. men of such categories have the ultimate respect for women. they may fall in love with a hundred women but each time they are sincere and each time they respect the women they love or admire.
7. they are fearless and adventurous. they are willing to risk everything they have just to win the heart or the one they love or like. there is nothing they are afraid of. and nothing can stop them.
8. they are men of guts. they know how and when to push the last step. in other words, they are never shy of what they are doing. to hide one's feeling or to suppress one's emotion is not in their dictionary. if they like someone they will make sure that someone knows about it.
9. their desire is insatiable. they have exceptionally strong desire, physical as well as mental. sex is a form of art, a way of existence, and a media that leads to the ultimate truth of life. in this sense they have no taboo to fear. nothing is forbidden to them as far as sex is concerned.
10. they are ruthless. they can abandon the one they love at any time and without any remorse. this is exactly what makes them so powerful and so strong -- they know how to love and they know how to forget. for them love is a thunderstorm -- it is powerful but short-lived. they know the nature of love more than anyone so they never dream of eternal love, because they know there is no such thing.
it is a pity not to have one of these men in your life, because that means you are missing out one of the most interesting, the most enchanting and the most empowering experience.
however, it is also the worst suffering to have one of these men in your life. you know you are doomed to be abandoned or betrayed the first minute you become his prey. and worse yet, after the passionate relationship with such one the mundane husband and boyfriend will have a hardtime to win back your desire and passion.
According to Socrates the most important thing in life is "know thyself". you need to make sure you know what you want before you plunge into a fruitless relationship with such men -- you may be asking something that is too strong for your stomach.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 男人风流的最高境界(ZT)^_*
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛经常有男人一兴奋便会得意地讲自己的艳史。不过许多吹嘘自己身经百战的男人,都只知道在数量上强调自己的业绩。我就听过一个几乎走遍全球的大款说自己的风流事,不过听完才知道他那些引以为傲的经历原来只是小儿科。事实上,他根本就没风流过,完全只是在各种不同地方向不同女人花钱出售体力。

    真正风流的男人一般是不会去嫖妓的,嫖妓的人通常都是性压抑或性饥渴者,他们是用消耗体力的方式来满足生理需求。风流男人与女人交往重在一个情字上,他们追求的是质量;假风流男人则只为一个泄字,追求的是数量。有男人说“情”很麻烦很累,而“泄”简单干脆。这也倒是实话,可问题是男女之事不麻烦不累仅简单和干脆,那种掏心掏肺的韵味和感觉又怎能体现呢?

    我在10多年前很喜欢打猎,经常和一帮人去很偏远的地方追猎。其实打猎的乐趣不完全在结局,过程中应变的情景更是分外刺激。记得当时有一位暴发户老跟着我们跑,不过每次刚进山口他就不愿再前进。当我们下山回营时,他总是得意地提着几只死鸡向我们炫耀,说他也是好猎手。仔细一看,都是些家养的鸡。我们恍然大悟,对着他狂笑。原来他下山后去买了一个大笼子,又向农民买了几只鸡放进去,然后用猎枪一只只将鸡打死。从那以后,我们一见到他就叫:伟大的杀鸡猎人。

    现在有些男人也是这样,他们花钱去玩女人,然后还很得意地标榜自己是“沟女”高手,是经历过很多女人的情圣。谁都知道花钱找的女人根本不是完整的女人,她们除了给你肉体,很统一的特征是没有真情。古今中外的嫖客与妓女都只是一种商业关系,甚至很多被逼做妓女的女性还会从骨子里蔑视嫖客。在这种男女关系中,很难体会到相爱的那种心跳,因而也无法对心灵形成抚慰。也许有些男人在市场竞争的挣扎中,已掏空了自己的全部精力,可能他们会说:我没有更多的时间儿女情长,所以也不想和女人讲什么真情!这的确是当今社会很严重的现象,男人的“忙”从字面上解是心死。即使某些男人还没有忙死,但也几乎忙得失去了爱的能力。幸好目前男人还没有完全失去对女人的兴趣,极忙的男人也能在壮阳药的支持下浮起性的渴望。这种用钱消磨体力和满足性欲的行为已经不是风流,这种人如果再标榜自己是风流情圣,那真的是脸厚和可笑。

    真正风流的男人往往在情场上并不张扬,他们喜欢不露声色地观察目标。老练的情场高手很从容,有一种让人不容易发现的淡定。他们非常明白与什么样的女人可以碰出火花,有时甚至根本不说一个爱字也能使女人心动不已。这种男人看上去很自然,仿佛很透明,同时能洞察各种女性微妙的情绪变化。最厉害的风流种能将女人心中散乱的感觉进行重组,会在突然间让女人看到自己从未发现的优势。许多女人会感到他身上发光的引力,会在一种难言的状态中让自己的心随他而颤动。很成熟的风流男人往往非常简单,他们像孩子似的单纯,可当与对路的女人碰撞时,却能在瞬间制造疯狂和浪漫。

    风流的最高境界是一种与自然合拍的完美节奏,这是很多假风流附庸者无法达到的层面。更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 应是男人风流的不同境界. 有些男人玩情, 有些男人玩欲, 根本就没什么高低, Canada 有些男人出售体力打 Labour 挣 $15/hr, 有些男人出售脑力挣$10/hr. 追求的是不同境界. 谁高谁低? $15 or $10
      • 但是很少有Labour $40/Hours吧?脑力好像容易些。
        • 你不是讲境界嘛, 怎么变了容易不容易呢? . “ 泄” 容易, 高境界?
          • 高?我辈不能望其项背,那不成“葵花宝典”啦?还是左右互博;-)
            • 葵花宝典”啦?还是左右互博, 玩情, 玩欲是男人的不同玩法. 没什么高低境界. Just like some guys to play basketball or boxing to relax, some guys like to play chess or cards to relax. Who is 高境界?
              • 大小通吃!老少皆宜!左右互博!与情与性!无法五天!
                • 好!, 这正是风流无限, 人生得意须尽欢啊...... You got the point !.
      • 小学算术加减法则没改吧?
    • 女:卖艺不卖身。男:那好,玩你不给钱就不是卖了。。。好像是9品芝麻官这个电影。
      • " 高 "境界!
    • 高!实在是高!看来老顽童成为我进入ROLIA的第一个给我深刻印象和让我记住名字的人,写得好!还想问一句:哪里能找到这种风流达到最高境界的男人呢?
      • Try Church @ Wellsley area.
        • 俺咋觉得那里同性恋蛮多的...
          • 这种" 风流 "达到最高境界的有情无欲男人, 也许只有哪里能找到.
      • I once have met one.
      • 主动和你搭讪的人如果不是无赖型,通常几率不小。这类男人很自信,懂女人,或者懂得怎么吸引女人
        • "这类男人很自信,懂女人,或者懂得怎么吸引女人" This is one point but not the very point. Thank you for your understanding.
          • 这是一种找法,再就年龄稍大点,35岁以下的可能还是阅历不够?
            • What do you mean?
              • 你不是问上哪里找吗?我猜了两个线索,不要轻易拒绝和你搭讪的人,也许那人挺有趣;再就35岁以上的人可能性大点?:)
                • Any reasons, please?:)
                • I thought your mom told you not to talk to strangers...
                  :P
            • Actually everyone has two different ages: natural age and mental age. I do not think it is a proper way for some people to imagine the natural age just according to the mental age.
        • characteristics of the men in your category
          本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛the men in your category typically have the following characteristics:
          1. they are men of wisdom. they have witnessed enough in their life -- either directly or indirectly. they digest their life experience (and that of others) better than anyone. Thus they are usually more mature than men of their own age.
          2. they are men of exceptional intelligence. they are sharp, talented and highly intelligent. they are quick learners and they exceed in everything they do. they are successful in their own career or profession. they are the best businessmen, lawyers, professors, or doctors.
          3. they are well-to-do, if not rich. their income is better than average so they can keep up with their taste and class.
          4. they are very well-educated -- better than average. they read a lot. they are knowledgable of many topics. they are savy, cultivated, and witty.
          5. they are the best audience(listeners) to girls. they know how to listen. and they also know the best weapon for conquering a girl is not the mouth, but the ears. if you know how to listen to a girl, you are already half way to her bedroom.
          6. they are admirer of women. men of such categories have the ultimate respect for women. they may fall in love with a hundred women but each time they are sincere and each time they respect the women they love or admire.
          7. they are fearless and adventurous. they are willing to risk everything they have just to win the heart or the one they love or like. there is nothing they are afraid of. and nothing can stop them.
          8. they are men of guts. they know how and when to push the last step. in other words, they are never shy of what they are doing. to hide one's feeling or to suppress one's emotion is not in their dictionary. if they like someone they will make sure that someone knows about it.
          9. their desire is insatiable. they have exceptionally strong desire, physical as well as mental. sex is a form of art, a way of existence, and a media that leads to the ultimate truth of life. in this sense they have no taboo to fear. nothing is forbidden to them as far as sex is concerned.
          10. they are ruthless. they can abandon the one they love at any time and without any remorse. this is exactly what makes them so powerful and so strong -- they know how to love and they know how to forget. for them love is a thunderstorm -- it is powerful but short-lived. they know the nature of love more than anyone so they never dream of eternal love, because they know there is no such thing.
          it is a pity not to have one of these men in your life, because that means you are missing out one of the most interesting, the most enchanting and the most empowering experience.
          however, it is also the worst suffering to have one of these men in your life. you know you are doomed to be abandoned or betrayed the first minute you become his prey. and worse yet, after the passionate relationship with such one the mundane husband and boyfriend will have a hardtime to win back your desire and passion.
          According to Socrates the most important thing in life is "know thyself". you need to make sure you know what you want before you plunge into a fruitless relationship with such men -- you may be asking something that is too strong for your stomach.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
          • 这个是高手.
          • 高!
          • Wow, such a masterpiece. Then who is this "old_man"? Can I have an opportunity of meeting such a marvellous man as this "old_man"?
          • Maybe the kind of men described in "old_man"'s article are really "too strong for my stomach", but I do care the men who just know those rules as what "old_man" has stated.
          • Thank you very much, old_man, you and your article are really very impressive.:)
      • 我能想到的暂时只有一个:张爱玲《倾城之恋》里的范柳原。
        • 范柳原是书上的. 他找这种真实的风流男人呢. 你再想想, 朋友什么的.
          • 你没看出我是让她省省心,直接去小说里找得了,虽然小说里也不多。要不自己写一个?
            • 风流不省心啊. " 那种掏心掏肺的韵味和感觉又怎能省心呢? "
        • If you have your own ideas of the kind of men described in the article, please reply to the article and give your comments on the article.
        • You don't need to give me any advice if you don't know at all what I mentioned. Thank you for your understanding in advance.
    • 玩弄感情的东西也上了ROLIA大塘... INTERESTING...
      • 原来ROLIA也有很多三八干部呀.
        • You have sisters, pal?
          • Thanks for speaking in this way...
            Thanks for speaking in this way because I am a lady. But I do think that men should know how to make themselves attractive just as women should know how to make themselves charming. I do not think the kind of men described in the article are not good. I think if one of those men happens to be your husband, he is great as long as you know how to "manage" him.
            • BS! LOVE IS NOT GAME, LADY!
              • 哇,这么激动?:)
              • But don't you think human life is just like some games? As you should know, there are some rules and unexpectations in human life just as that in the games. I think the key point is how well you can play the games.
                • is it fair to say you are pretty good at it??
                  • It's fair to say that you're, pat pat...
                    :P
                • Sorry, I forgot one word: TRUE love isn't game. Does it make more sense? If you'd like to play games during any relationships, that's your choice.
                  • Frankly speaking, I am a little reserved. I do believe in true love. I am sure that you did not catch my real meaning.
                    • U probably mean conservative...
                      • Do not understand you. But I am really a little disappointed that there are no guys who can really talk about this issue with me here. Too much misunderstanding and too much sidetracking.
                        • Let's play....
                          the weakest link.. :P
                • yes, yes, and everyone will eventually get what they are looking for
                  excitement
                  money
                  sex
                  love
                  what else?

                  pity no one gets all, so it's about choice.
                  • I choose other... coz you didn't list it.
                    • hh, that's "what else", mate.
                      • U r very aussie, were you there before?
                        • no. but have 1 or 2 friends from there
                          • and you've been called a mate.. hh...
                            • again, you are amazing...
                  • and commitment to choice.
                    • Bad news. :((
      • やすい
    • 这种男人挺可爱,不过加上风流二字,容易引起歧义
      • your comment always makes more sense:)
      • I agree with you. Actually, "风流" do not always have the bad meanings, but a lot of Chinese are scared to see these words and always give them some bad meanings.
      • 此风流非彼风流!!!!!!!!!!!
    • You read my mind.
    • I am really a little disappointed that there are not so many guys who can really talk about this issue with me here. Too much misunderstanding and too much sidetracking.
      • It is understandable. You, I and every one want to have a true love. You have to know love happens at any time and any where around you. But,
        But, I doubt if it is true love you wish. Question is what is true love. You may know the ideal balance equation in chemistry, and ideal gas equation in physics. We can not reach this ideal condition in the our world environment. Love is a reality of life, including everything, maybe god also bad either. If love is related to life, it cannot be 100% true or pure.
        • when you say "gas", do you mean gas gas or just gas?
        • Thank you very much for your sincerity. You do make some sense, though I still have some different ideas from yours. Life is great. Good luck and enjoy your life!:)
    • Sorry, the format of this forum is a little confusing and I do not get used to it. It seems that there are some questions to which I have to reply but I can not find them in a rush way.
      • Maybe you can try the bush way instead of the rush way.
        • You gave such a smart reply. Thank you!:)
          • the fun is mine.
        • Yeah, you replied to me in such a smart way. I enjoy it.:)
          • anytime.
    • Thanks a lot to everyone above who raised questions and ideas for sharing no matter what ideas you have. Good night!
      • I agree with what you said completely. Men absolutely need to know how to be attractive, mentally and physically. And also ways Jiaozi mentioned as how to find such man are SO TRUE.
        I believe people should always strive for being attractive, should never give up that effort under the cover of "true love". If you are in true love with somebody, you always want to be more attractive to her/him.
        • Great point!
        • I just reviewed the posters above once again and I found that maybe what JIAO-ZI said regarding how to find the attractive men had hit the point well, though I do not know if I should agree with her or not.
        • But the point is every woman has her own personality which has been built from her family education. Does anyone have any ideas regarding how to change the personality to meet some ideas in one's mind?
    • 和和,本文的作者不是有严重的自恋倾向,就是有严重有男性膜拜狂热。
    • 境界
      • 较低