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无聊随想系列之 足迹

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛珍惜每一天,微笑面对每一天每一个遇到的人;因为今天过去后不会再回来,而今天遇到的人也许以后不再有机会见面,彼此留一个美好的回忆吧。

大家准备很久的计划不经意的被打乱了,一丝遗憾,一点感叹。坐在窗前,捧着一杯微苦的中药,忽然想起一位久远的昔日朋友。有一年多没有联系了吧。曾收到过朋友的留言,可是没有留下回电号码,而我又早就遗失了旧通讯录,途留遗憾。

“友谊是需要经营的。”以前我没懂过这个道理,错过了很多好朋友,也伤了很多好朋友,又同时被自己伤害了。可惜当时不觉得,此刻从别人身上仿佛看到当时的自己,感悟良久。事过境迁,发生过的事已成事实,也无需挽回什么,也挽回不了什么。

林清玄在《新鲜桂花茶》中写道:“明年的桂花一定会和今年一样香,明年遇到的人也一定比今年更好。”是啊,永远都会是:今年花胜去年红,可惜明年花更好。下一个永远是最好的,但是如果还是老样子对待,那还会是同样的结局,不会改变。关键还是要学会善待:善待自己,善待朋友,善待每一个人。

生活有时候就像走路,常常喜欢目不旁视得匆匆疾走,往往就忽略很多周围的事物,也忽略了身旁的友伴。所以时不时还是需要提醒一下自己,放松心态,随和一些,不要事事都太顶真,学会环视四周,学会照顾到别人的想法,…。虽然,很多时候又会忘记,不过努力保持微笑,我想随着时间的推移,一切都会变得最好。更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 无聊随想系列之 足迹
    • 就算下一个没那么好,也得往前走。就是这样。
      • 首长辛苦啦!
        • 刚从外面走一圈,心里冒火,狼狈不堪。:-(
          • 下一个会是更好的
            起码, 我们对待下一个的态度会改善.
    • 人生只在呼吸间.
      • 这口气够长的。
        • 您老忙呢?
          • 忙啊,忙着喘气,忙着灌水呢。
        • 这口气的长短。看是和什么比较了。人生的长度还不如地球呼口气
        • 看看什么人为什么岔了气儿了
      • yoga?
        • ^_^ I would like to know more about yoga.
          • I just began to take courses of yoga. What you said was the instructor told me at the first lesson. It's very interesting and thoughtful.
            • where to take the course? Is it good?
              • I think it's good. Actually, I didn't expect to take a yoga course like this one, in which we listen to the instructor most of time and only spend little time on practicing .
                it's a 11/2hour courses which includes 1 hour talking (the instructor talks about respect, responsibility, thinking, love and life....) and half an hour practice. But I am not sure if it like this all the time or it's just because it's the first lesson.

                Are you living in Toronto. If you can find a book (magazine) named Toronto Fun (Parks and Recreation Guide), you can easly find out a communite certer close to your home having yoga courses. (you can find it in library and communite certer)

                There are different courses about Yoga. Some focus on practice while others are focusing on thinking, or, even you can find some focus both of practice and thinking. Call them if you are not sure. (I didn't bring my note with me so I can't tell you the name of the course I am taking now)
                • thank you very much. I interest that.
            • good! you like it?
              • I do like it. But it seems too long for me to sit on the ground without talking and moving. :)
      • 我也想学, 介绍个YOGA班吧