I have bf, we are dating for 8 months. we go out 4 or 5 times a week, I usually pay on Tuesday, sometimes on weekend, but most of the time he paid. Actually he don't want me to pay the bills, each time he say he is a boy. But you know what I feel, when you really love sometime, you will care about him, nothing about money, when you see he need to pay condo, car, and each time he still buy the bills, I really don't want to give him any pressure any more. So I start to find reason to pay the bills. Really, nothing about money, I do care about him. He is a white guy.